logo name and design © meFFisto mkdw 2003, name derivative of Mephisto, 
			and what he stands for, in Goethe's Faust; letters FF referring to gay male fist fucking or fisting



Do what you feel in your heart to be right – for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do and damned if you don't.

Eleanor Roosevelt (1884-1962)

Comments about this website are always welcome, no matter whether favourable or not. Have your say! You can submit your opinion here or via the contact link in the navigation panel to the right. If you do, please don't forget to include your permission to be quoted on this site.

The constructive and reassuring feedback received from visitors to this website confirms that quite a number of fisters and fistees perceive fisting as an act of love-making. This contrast sharply with those who prefer the mere physical gratification, which commonly lacks the embrace of mutually shared emotions – so manifestly intrinsic to fisting. Their responses do not only convey introspection – to which, as some attest, the contents of this site is contributing – but also reflect their thoughts about what fisting means to them, as well as their notions of how to take it to a level of all-encompassing fulfilment.

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AN EPOCH OF CLEMENCY, Russian policemen 
 			kissing, photograph from the series 'Vogue for Labour' by Vyacheslav Mizin and Alexander Shaburov of 'Blue
 			Noses' © 2005, Novosibirsk; by courtesy of Galerie Volker Diehl, Berlin; having been publicly exhibited 
 			in Moscow, in 2007 the Russian culture minster, Alexander Sokolov, confiscated the photograph and banned it
 			from being shown in Paris later in the same year.

An Epoch of Clemency

photograph by Alexander Shaburov & Vyacheslav Mizin
by courtesy of the artists
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Have your say

fistluvver [53]

England - November 24, 2014

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butchsubatl [59]

USA - September 30, 2014

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England - July 23, 2014

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GoldenMinotaur [36]

England - May 21, 2014

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spermffun [47]

Italy - March 25, 2013

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sffistpig [59]

USA - March 6, 2013

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lthrnips [64]

Canada - February 21, 2013

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deepFF [40]

Switzerland - September 26, 2012

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FFreehands [59]

USA - August 31, 2012

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whorepig [65]

Canada - February 21, 2012

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levis4me [67]

Australia - January 19, 2012

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fisterm8 [42]

Scotland - December 14, 2011

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lethomme [60]

USA - September 7, 2011

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Nosaddle [51]

Germany - May 28, 2009

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soloboy [48]

USA - May 13, 2009

rule10 rule10 I chanced upon your site, read it from the beginning to the end, and am impressed by the caliber of your writing. It makes me very curious about this spiritual aspect that you discuss. Is that something that comes with time and a good relationship with a partner? Are there ways that you would suggest to catalyze that process? I would love to know.

EagleJimi [45]

Canada - May 12, 2009

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redbushbtm [50]

USA - October 4, 2008

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fistmuncher [43]

England - May 21, 2008

rule10 rule10 I have read your site pages and am totally astounded and amazed that someone has taken the time and effort to put so much thought into what I deem a practice for pleasure. I am intrigued and hooked on what you have written. It gives me a sense of euphoria both mentally and physically. So I must congratulate you on a sincere and very well-conceived website put together with so much consideration. Cheers.

my_man [37]

United Arab Emirates - May 11, 2008

rule10 rule10 Hi there – It was very good to have come across your site. I find your writings some of the best dealing with FF. I have been into it since young age and it is, after all those years, my favourite for sure. For me FF is a spiritual act. You are one of the few I encountered who knows what FF really is all about. But many don't get it even after years of practice. Thank you for sharing. I added a link to your site on my profile just in case guys want to learn more about FF – and what it can be. Thank you again.

FFistFFriend [64]

Germany - May 7, 2008

rule10 rule10 Your website helped me understand your response to my queries in regard to fisting. Your dedication to fisting based on such deeply spiritual-philosophical background makes me, as a theologian, curious and inspires both endorsement and disagreement, but it also touches upon my spiritual yearning during sex, especially in fisting and the proFFound experience it can provide. Thank you.

NorthNHMan [52]

England - May 5, 2008

rule10 rule10 Lots of good information on FF contained on your site. You are to be congratulated on your research and experience. I do enjoy FF; but, it is very rare to find a person with such a vast wealth of knowledge and passion in this wonderful sexual act. I feel inadequate when it comes to the FF stature you have attained; but, I would sure like to try!

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sexmagick [51]

England - November 1, 2007

rule10 rule10 I have had very few experiences with FF. They have not been good. My searching for the deep connection you so eloquently describe on your website has inspired me.

keys2heaven [48]

England - September 21, 2007

rule10 rule10 I read some of your writings on the net quite early on in my fisting adventure and find them very inspiring. Your website stands out from all others on the subject. The practice of fisting, however, seems to fall short of what you describe, and that is why your accounts of it had caught my imagination.

Jhoe55 [52]

USA - September 8, 2007

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FF-deep-ass [48]

Germany - July 25, 2007

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idle [19]

England - February 11, 2007

rule10 rule10 Looking at your website I find that I can relate a lot to the idea of connecting. That is what started my interest in fisting – how intimate it all felt. If I don’t really feel a connection with a person, then I do find it quite difficult to open up – metaphorically and literally.

surprised_hero [20]

England - January 9, 2007

rule10 rule10 Hi – I googled Fisting and browsed many a site, most of them about hardcore sex, but I was particularly intrigued by yours and read on. What an incredible and insightful website. Thank you for putting it up.

I have worn a red bandanna for a long time without actually thinking about what it means, it was just my favourite colour. Your website was the first time I have read of Fisting being described as lovemaking. While Fisting seems to get wound up in BDSM culture and hardcore sex, the caring, loving aspects of it are lost. In fact a lot of sex ends up like that, and there is also this complacency of venturing beyond the physical. Kind of along the lines that as long as you orgasm then its not a wasted session. I often find it hard to reach that place with a partner and so endeavour to make him as happy as possible because it is easier than expecting him to do the same for me. Glad to have found your site and will be thinking hard on your philosophies.

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jay94904 [66]

England - November 11, 2006

ule10 rule10 Hello meFFisto – I loved reading your website. Although I am relatively new to fisting, I understand enough to grasp the dimensions of which you write, particularly concerning fisting as the ultimate, and the idea of using one's head to not only connect with each other on the physical level but, at the same time, also on the planes of the mind, soul and spirit.

I became very intrigued by your description of the divine connection. I love mind-altering, mind-boggling connections with a similarly-inclined mature man. I do believe I know what you're talking about in terms of connecting at all levels, using all the senses and all the brilliant parts of ourselves that we have the privilege of holding within us, to tap into the same within another man, thereby achieving unimaginably synergistic moments of shared pleasure and connection.

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-- about meFFisto
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-- articles, essays, poetry
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sexfreak [26]

England - September 16, 2006

rule10 rule10 Your website is sooo boring! I want to see hot, sleazy raunch and horny hardcore action pics.

slavelust51 [70]

England - August 24, 2006

rule10 rule10 I have just finished reading your website – with utter fascination. I have so much to learn! As you make very clear, I feel response is a vital part of any form of lovemaking, this life-enhancing activity. Fisting being such an intense (at its best) experience does require response, and with absolute honesty. I have always felt that to be true in any dominant/submissive situation, involving SM or not.

johnnys [53]

England - July 4, 2006

rule10 rule10 Magnificent website!